Day 126 Postpartum. Vinnie's new nurses.

Vinnie has two new full time nurses looking after him in hospital... that would be Cam and I!

On Monday I was having a bit of a blue day about having to leave Vinnie each night and not having more consistency with the nursing staff. We were having three different staff over a 24 hour period and it seemed like a new nurse each day rather than the usual nurses who we were used to. Leaving your baby in the care of complete strangers is hard, particularly when Vinnie is getting to age where he needs familiarity.

So I had a bit of a meltdown about this and the staff were really good about it. They definitely listen and try to come up with a solution. At NICU they have four parent rooms for parents to stay in with their babies for a night or two before discharge. Basically so the parents can care for their babies around the clock without the support of nursing staff... preparing them for reality and all.

They decided that we could utilise one of these rooms (while they have availability) and that Vinnie could come in to the room with us after a night or two. The first three nights Cam and I were in the room without Vinnie, but still getting up every 3-4 hours throughout the night to feed/change him. On Thursday night they finally decided that he could come in to the room with us. I think they were a bit nervous about it as Vinnie is still on quite a lot of oxygen and would normally need monitoring by a nurse full time. I think they realise though that he is quite stable and providing he is still hooked up to monitors, Cam and I are able to do most of the nursing duties... we have been here long enough to learn.

So, we have had two nights with Vinnie now and are starting to feel more like a family unit. He has been fairly good through the night, waking every four hours (like clock work!) to be fed. He is a little bit noisy... babies with chronic lung disease are a bit grunty, so he has kept us up a bit with his sound effects.

On Tuesday it looks as though we will finally be having the pre discharge planning meeting with the neonatologist and family liaison nurse (NICU) and respiratory team doctors (Starship) to discuss either discharge home or transfer to Starship. The neonatologist looking after Vinnie at the moment seems quite positive about us taking him home on the level of oxygen he currently requires. One of the respiratory doctors came to speak to us last night and he also seemed quite optimistic about sending him home too... trying not to get my hopes up too much though.

They just need to weigh up the benefits/risks of each scenario. If Vinnie goes home he is less likely to pick up any bugs. If he goes to Starship he will be more exposed to respiratory infections by other patients in the hospital. If Vinnie comes home he will also benefit more developmentally... the hospital is just such a drab environment. The big concern with sending him home is that he won't be close to the medical team and support in case of an emergency. So it all comes down to how stable they feel he is and how good a plan we have in place in case something happens.

Which ever way it goes, at least we should have a decision next week... I hope. It has been 18 weeks now and it is time for a change of scenery!